tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2682704880246530295.comments2023-06-23T01:19:36.699-07:00Beyond the LossATs Ladyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16963855047787600049noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2682704880246530295.post-38908989517779796832010-02-02T09:53:11.334-08:002010-02-02T09:53:11.334-08:00My sadness has been replaced with gladness --- aft...My sadness has been replaced with gladness --- after 30 years in the fog and being so lost, empty and full of fear. Read my post Jan 1, 2010 entitled A KEPT WOMAN. View the many self-portraits - a long journey from a molested child, into the world of business, struggling with my image of confidence, living a lie through my smile. Thanks for your honesty.<br />BarbaraAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07777658601094870541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2682704880246530295.post-16498757871658312652009-07-17T03:19:44.640-07:002009-07-17T03:19:44.640-07:00If your day job isn't writing then you may nee...If your day job isn't writing then you may need an occupation change! This post is amazing!! Just remember to keep moving forward, at least thats what I am learning from you!!SGTMcClainhttp://sgtmcclain.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2682704880246530295.post-53321034194835802992009-07-03T23:38:03.527-07:002009-07-03T23:38:03.527-07:00Hey thanks for your posts! Know its not easy to wr...Hey thanks for your posts! Know its not easy to write about, but you're helping others find their way. Proud to know you!<br />CarlinCarlinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13808141782897956066noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2682704880246530295.post-87905484877066563762009-07-02T14:56:54.157-07:002009-07-02T14:56:54.157-07:00I've heard it said by some smart people, that ...I've heard it said by some smart people, that one problem we have, from early age, is that we're trained to live through our senses, to look for answers out side of ourself, when in truth we have many or most answers inside of us. So, it is scary to look in the mirror for answers, because its not familiar territory. <br />Heavy, huh? :)<br />Hugs!<br />Carlin<br />http://twitter.com/carlincommCarlinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13808141782897956066noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2682704880246530295.post-35446169858690672402009-07-01T03:35:35.006-07:002009-07-01T03:35:35.006-07:00Keep you head up, the fact that you have made it t...Keep you head up, the fact that you have made it to this point means that you are making progress. There is only one way to eat an elephant and thats one bite at a time.<br /><br />I don't disagree with you, to dwell on the past will allow it to keep a hold over you that could be very detrimental, but you have this blog, this place where you can put your feeling out there and not let them have a hold over you. I would just hope that you don't hold in pain just because you are keeping it out of your writing.<br /><br />You call this blog "Beyond the Loss" and think it is fitting for the journey you are embarking on. If you need any assistance along the way you know where you can find me!SGT McClainhttp://sgtmcclain.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2682704880246530295.post-41700780180680250222009-06-28T17:54:11.649-07:002009-06-28T17:54:11.649-07:00I know you said I may not like it, but being a fat...I know you said I may not like it, but being a father too I have gone thru a similar situation with my kids mother. Without going into too much detail I was supposed to take them on vacation and when we were about to leave she got upset and wouldn't let them go, This is after purchasing 2 rooms at Ceasars Flying my mother and sister out to Cali from DC and driving myself out there in a rental car.<br /><br />Women can be very vindictive at times and it too me a lot to even want to talk to her after that, but I am glad to say that she and I have a much stronger relationship now and issues like that don't come up anymore.<br /><br />Its a true shame he was never able to get to that point with his ex. Some people just don't understand how important it is for a child to have their father in their lives. Whats worse is their are so many fathers that don't do for their kids, I don't see how anyone could try to deny the rights of the Fathers that do want to be their for their kids. <br /><br />I could go on and on about this but I will end now before I get truly upset at 3:50am.SGT McClainhttp://sgtmcclain.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2682704880246530295.post-90065777967307695062009-06-27T02:21:38.721-07:002009-06-27T02:21:38.721-07:00You know a few hours after these events happened I...You know a few hours after these events happened I wondered what your recation was. Thank you for sharing your insight, some of us don't know what its like to lose someone close to us.<br /><br />Thank you again for allowing others to learn from you and thru you!SGT McClainhttp://www.sgtmcclain.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2682704880246530295.post-89810889415582334152009-06-24T21:26:35.559-07:002009-06-24T21:26:35.559-07:00It means a lot when other's encourage me to wr...It means a lot when other's encourage me to write. Thank you so muchATs Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16963855047787600049noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2682704880246530295.post-24842597732882486432009-06-21T17:53:57.965-07:002009-06-21T17:53:57.965-07:00After suffering a tragedy myself my heart sings to...After suffering a tragedy myself my heart sings to his..and yes we have to find our way through... to find a way to enjoy life again.. to be not afraid<br /><br />thank you for sharingLunahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06999367960465976920noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2682704880246530295.post-76822630102257145882009-06-18T23:17:09.503-07:002009-06-18T23:17:09.503-07:00I'm so sorry for your loss, but at least you&#...I'm so sorry for your loss, but at least you're expressing it in a constructive and positive way. Keep writing, girl. Writing is my first love, too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2682704880246530295.post-12639176069854097832009-06-10T14:21:30.256-07:002009-06-10T14:21:30.256-07:00dearest nicole,
i´d like to invite you over to he...dearest nicole, <br />i´d like to invite you over to hear nice, easy, funky music ~ maybe it helps releasing a little of your sorrow. <br />i always believe dancing heals. oh, and never forget: he is still around you, protecting, caring, loving - and he wants YOU to be happy again. your decision if you stay alone or let him help you to find someone new. sincerely, cassie<br />ceo/founder of veryheaven and radio wildandivine. <br />*<br />http://blip.fm/wild_divineveryheavenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02943241744581595677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2682704880246530295.post-32220792137282916532009-05-26T13:19:59.981-07:002009-05-26T13:19:59.981-07:00This has touched my heart, and makes me realise ho...This has touched my heart, and makes me realise how lucky I am even though sometimes I feel far from it.<br /><br />I wish you lots of love and laughter in the future xxxxxxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2682704880246530295.post-13973856631220053252009-05-11T21:32:00.000-07:002009-05-11T21:32:00.000-07:00What a touching post. May God bless you and your h...What a touching post. May God bless you and your husband.Mocha Dadhttp://www.mochadad.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2682704880246530295.post-28342698555174421752009-05-11T20:59:00.000-07:002009-05-11T20:59:00.000-07:00You are a brave and generous spirit to share your ...You are a brave and generous spirit to share your story. <br /><br />By doing so you are increasing the joy of memory and reducing the pain of loss.<br /><br />Your words will man a lot to many<br /><br />write on!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2682704880246530295.post-90997889077969415902009-05-06T19:36:00.000-07:002009-05-06T19:36:00.000-07:00I can't imagine your grief. Your words are beautif...I can't imagine your grief. Your words are beautiful, real and honest and bring a real sense of your loss to me.<br />I have never experienced this kind of loss. I have loved and lost, but not like this, not like what you are describing.<br />My heart aches for you. Thank you for sharing your pain, for others will find strength and comfort in what you share.AmyKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01180475789560217467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2682704880246530295.post-77407316317043348592009-05-04T21:14:00.000-07:002009-05-04T21:14:00.000-07:00Good things to you. :D
Thanks for letting us in o...Good things to you. :D<br /><br />Thanks for letting us in on your epiphany and pain.<br /><br />By sharing your heart you have shown others a way through their loss and grief.<br /><br />That is a gift from you and your man that will resonate forever.<br /><br />Long may you run :D<br /><br />tony @perhtonesTony Servehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02564883143220673301noreply@blogger.com